I thought that I would take a moment to express what I am thankful for, even though I am unable to celebrate Thanksgiving.
The basic list:
- Bill Sheasgreen (and the entire ICLC staff)
- Gluten free digestives
- Cadbury
- Edible gluten free bread
- Skype/Google Hangouts
- Netflix
On a more serious note, I have a lot to be thankful for, this year more than most.
I am incredibly thankful for this study abroad opportunity. I knew that I was going to learn a lot about a different culture and go new places but I did not anticipate learning so much about life and myself in a short few months. I've learned so much about who I am and what I can do. Finding somewhere to live and adjusting to life on a new continent all on my own has made me much more confident in my life skills. I've learned how to make new friends, which doesn't seem like a huge deal but I've never really had the experience of going to a new place and not knowing a single person. Even when I moved to Ithaca I had Liz so there was one person that I could always talk to (or steal food from those few times).
I've learned that there are some people in the world that are truly terrible and most of the time you just have to suck it up and deal with them, but also that sometimes it is okay to be blunt and stand up for yourself. Most importantly I've learned that you don't have to be be friends with everyone. It's exhausting trying to be nice to someone when they can't even provide basic respect--- you don't have to be nice to everyone, as long as you aren't being mean it's all good.
I've learned that I hate living in a messy apartment (you win, Mom and Dad). I love coming home to a clean house. Dishes in the sink, cups on the counter, and things laying around where they don't belong make me angrier than the Hulk. A clean house is a happy (and not smelly) house.
I've learned to appreciate my friends and family more. I never experienced homesickness before coming here, and it stinks. There is literally an ocean between me and my loved ones which makes me appreciate the little things and daily interactions so much more. My friends in Ithaca make an effort to keep me up to date with all of the excitement (or lack thereof) at school, my family chats with me so that I don't feel left out even though I am missing so much. And despite being quite literally on the opposite side of the world, Rachel has managed to torture--I mean, entertain me, all the way from New Zealand.
I have some pretty amazing people in my life and I cannot wait to see them all when I get home.
Finally, I am most grateful for the opportunity to be able to HANG OUT WITH MY SISTER HERE IN LONDON. That's right, Duchess Kate and Queen Elizabeth are taking over London for a few days. Brace yourself, England. It's gonna be a bumpy ride.
xoxo,
Kaity